...Bits&Pieces

Black Men Ain’t Shit!

I HATE to hear women say ‘men ain’t shit’.
I especially HATE to hear them say ‘black men ain’t shit’.
Not every man is worth your time, effort, & love
Yet sadly enough, many women don’t learn this until the very end.
I’ve seen my fair share of men that aren’t shit
but I’ve also seen men that are more than willing & able to treat their woman like a Queen,
That take care of their children, make the extra effort and that are actually GOOD BLACK MEN.

As much as women say they don’t need a man
In actuality, we need them just as much as they need us.

There are good men in this world
And yes, no matter how good they are they aren’t perfect.

Some men need genuine support but many are to busy putting them down and highlighting their shortcomings. I understand that a lot of men aren’t shit, but there are so many that deserve the benefit of the doubt.

Stop looking at what he isn’t capable of doing or what he doesn’t do for you and question yourself?
Ask yourself are you the right woman for him? Does he need you now? What do you have to bring to the table?
Before telling him he ain’t shit, ask yourself if you are.